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Blood and guts films morally offensive

I cannot believe that after the massacre at Sandy Hook, this chainsaw massacre movie can be number one.    

http://www.foxnews.com/entertainment/2013/01/06/chainsaw-3-d-carves-out-no-1-debut-with-23m-at-box-office/

Just from the article’s description, people of good moral intelligence should find fare like this disturbing at least and after Sandy Hook, downright disgusting.   It should have hardly a cult following and only among the unthinking and uncaring.  The fact that it is number one is a terrible indictment of our society.   God has warned us that those who fail to hate bloodshed will find it pursuing them (Ezekiel 35:6).  

In my view those who make these kinds of movies are on the same moral level as pimps, drug dealers, gambling house owners and others who make money at the expense of the vices of others.    Jesus himself warned that offenses (things that cause others to stumble) will come but that at the judgment it will not go well for those who bring them.

 “Woe to the world because of the things that cause people to stumble! Such things must come, but woe to the person through whom they come! (Mt 18:7  NIV 2011)

 

   

 

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Movement against violent games gaining traction

I am so happy to see that others are recognizing the need to do something about the violence in media.  I am praising God for the change of heart of this 12-year-old middle school student from Connecticut. He changed his mind and behavior after attending the funeral of one of the victims of the Connecticut massacre.   This article from the Hartford newspaper tells the story

http://www.courant.com/news/connecticut/newtown-sandy-hook-school-shooting/hc-newtown-united-sandy-hook-shooting-1220-20121219,0,2500252.story.

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Yes, We Need to Change

 

http://www.christianpost.com/news/we-must-change-obama-says-about-school-shooting-86754/

I think President Obama is right.  Our society as a whole must change if carnage like we have experienced four times in his four year presidency is to be stopped.   The key question is:  How must our country change?  As a pastor, writing from my perspective, I suggest the following three practical ways to change as a transforming start.

Believe in Hell

1.  We must get back to the genuine fear of God that acknowledges that we are responsible to God after we die for what we do while we are alive.   The Bible is clear that there is a hell and Jesus said plainly that those who do evil will be condemned (John 5:29).  Sad to say, the suffering of murderers like Adam Lanza has only begun.  The Apostle John wrote simply, “You know that no murderer has eternal life in him” (1 Jn 3:15 NIV)   Think about the ethical company of a murderer in the Bible and what happens to them after death.  For example, “We also know that law is made not for the righteous but for lawbreakers and rebels, the ungodly and sinful, the unholy and irreligious; for those who kill their fathers or mothers, for murderers, for adulterers and perverts, for slave traders and liars and perjurers — and for whatever else is contrary to the sound doctrine  that conforms to the glorious gospel of the blessed God, which he entrusted to me” (1 Ti 1:9-11 NIV)  In the Bible’s final book, murderers are included with others in such company  in the list of those condemned.   “The cowardly, the unbelieving, the vile, the murderers, the sexually immoral, those who practice magic arts, the idolaters and all liars — their place will be in the fiery lake of burning sulfur. This is the second death” (Rev. 21:8 NIV).   The longer we indulge in practical atheism with a corresponding lack of after-life responsibility, the more people will believe the devil’s lie that they can commit suicide after murder and escape consequences.   It is not so.

Corollary A.  This also means preachers like me need to say more about hell.   One of the reasons people don’t believe in it much is that preachers don’t talk about it much.   In my grandparent’s time and before, preaching `hell-fire and brimstone’ was popular.  The pendulum has swung too far the other way and now it is seldom mentioned.   That needs some correction.    Jesus taught, “Do not be afraid of those who kill the body but cannot kill the soul. Rather, be afraid of the One who can destroy both soul and body in hell” (Mt 10:28 NIV).

 

Fewer Divorces

2.   We must acknowledge and act upon the truth that divorce makes children, including older adolescents like Adam Lanza more vulnerable to maladjustment.   As Christians, we acknowledge that sometimes divorce is going to happen, but it is happening way too much and without recognition of the consequences to children.  We have deceived ourselves as a society into thinking that we can divorce without consequences to our children’s development.  This assumption is not Biblical.   In Malachi, God says about the heterosexual couple, “Has not [the Lord] made them one? In flesh and spirit they are his. And why one? Because he was seeking godly offspring. So guard yourself in your spirit, and do not break faith with the wife of your youth.    “I hate divorce,” says the Lord God of Israel, “and I hate a man’s covering himself with violence as well as with his garment,” says the Lord Almighty”  (Mal 2:15-16).   Why does God picture divorce as opposed to the goal of godly progeny?   Because it is the truth as any single Mom can attest and many sociological studies have confirmed that children have a much harder time doing well in life when the parents are not both present and on the job together.    We will not successfully address the problem of off-the-wall violent young adults until we address the broken homes that contribute to their pain.  We need to acknowledge that our selfishness in having it our way and refusing to seek counsel for reconciliation or refusing to bend, our hardness of heart as Jesus put it, is part of the problem.   

 

Bloodshed in Media is Not Entertaining

3.  As a society, we must stop enjoying violence in entertainment.  A society that makes heroes on film and in video games of people who spatter blood everywhere will sooner or later be afflicted by real violence of the kind we have seen.  Since God hates bloodshed, it cannot be our better side that calls bloodshed in media entertainment.    Morally undeveloped individuals tend to follow unreal fantasy heroes, including violent ones from film and video.   The more plentiful and highly acclaimed this kind of ‘hero’ is, the more likely to attract a low moral intelligence look-alike for real.  We can all honor the victims of Sandy Hook by returning all violent video games and not attending any movies with predominant shoot-em-up, blood-letting themes.   If we did that, soon we would have better fare at the box office and among the gaming apps.   When ancient Israel became a violent nation, God said to them, “Since you did not hate bloodshed, bloodshed will pursue you” (Eze 35:6).   If we truly hate what we saw in Connecticut and Virginia Tech, etc., then we have a clear consumer choice to make.     

 

Just these 3 changes would make a difference

Certainly these are not the only issues that need to be discussed after what has happened.  How we handle mental health issues in the family, access of the mentally unstable to guns in their family circle,  security at schools, jobs and job training for marginally employable young men, these also need further discussion.  But they are not my focus.  I believe that the three changes I have suggested would make a huge difference.  The change will not come overnight.  But these three modifications in our beliefs and behaviors would transform our culture in ways that would drastically reduce the incidence of horrendous violence. 

 

 

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Journal Who Am I Wisdom

Chronicling the reading habit

Reading is an important habit for all of us. Of course, our number one book to read is the Bible.   I have several ways to keep track of my reading.   When I finish a book that I own, I write the date in the front. Since I started blogging, I also try to write a short article for the book review section of my blog for each book that I have read, including the borrowed ones.   I have missed one or two.    My wife keeps notes including actual quotes in her computer from each book that she reads.    This is especially helpful to her as it preserves usable material from books she has read out of the public library. 

Both JoAnne and I always have several books going at once.   Inevitably, some get neglected while others take priority. This is just part of the way it is.   But eventually, most of them get finished.   Summer is a great time for reading.  I always manage to finish several books, as I did this year.   You can catch the three recent reviews in my book review section.

Choosing books to read is the heart of the matter.  I try to choose books that enrich the work that I’m doing.    And I usually have at least three different areas going at once to provide variety.   Often one is for fun or for my health.   I highly recommend the discipline of reading.  Whether it is from physical books or on electronic screens does not matter.

I usually have at least one book that challenges or encourages my spiritual life and/or my prayer life. This is a discipline I have maintained for many years.   The recent biography of Smith Wigglesworth was such a book.    Other books, I read to help me in my various responsibilities like the Gary McIntosh’s book on Taking Your Church to the Next Level.  Currently I am reading a book about college administration that is related to my work as a trustee at Houghton College.   Over the last several years, I have usually had at least one book related to leadership on my shelf with a bookmark part way through it.     For example, I finished a John Maxwell book last winter on being a people person (I haven’t reviewed it for my blog yet).  

 

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An excellent essay opposed to gay marriage

From the pen of Pastor Jim Garlow, a Wesleyan pastor from California, and now a national leader in the battle to preserve Biblical values in our country, comes a tremendous essay explaining the consequences of the state’s adoption of gay marriage.  I highly recommend it.  It is one of the clearest statements I have read concerning the reasons why states should not allow gay marriage.  I agree whole-heartedly with Dr. Garlow.   I have heard him speak several  times and read some of his writings.  He is an absolutely brilliant historian as well as a great pastor. 

http://torenewamerica.com/index.php/garlow-on-the-prop-8-ruling

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Church Leadership Journal News Commentary Wisdom

Best pro-life article I have read in some time

People who are pro-life are always asked by pro-choice people,  “What about cases of rape and incest?”   Here is a compelling, factual, insightful and thoroughly convincing pro-life answer.   I highly recommend it.

http://www.christianpost.com/news/how-do-we-respond-to-the-question-what-about-rape-and-incest-80584/

 

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Church Leadership Journal Wisdom

Book recommendations for marriages in troubled times

Last Sunday I finished the series of sermons called Kitchen Table Talks on Relationships.  As I was studying for the series and reviewing various sourcebooks, I was thinking about which ones to recommend to couples who were going through difficult times in their marriages.   My wife and I know from personal experience that marriage is not always easy. But we also know that with God’s help, and determination to see it through, couples can come through rough waters with a better marriage than before.   To help couples who are currently in those tough moments, here are three book recommendations.   

Making Love Last Forever by Gary Smalley (Word Publishing, 1996)  In this easy-to-read book, Dr. Smalley handles some difficult topics such as unresolved anger, deep hurts,  disappointed expectations,  marital communication and personality differences with insight and Christian wisdom.  Taking his advice seriously will help couples get back on track.

The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work  (Three Rivers Press, New York, 1999)  This is a different kind of book, an extremely practical and behavior-oriented book in which the author shares his research in predicting divorce and helping couples avoid it. He describes how he predicts whether a marital conflict will resolve the problem 96% of the time after only listening to 3 minutes of it.     I was skeptical until I began to read the signs he looks for, one of which is the presence of the deadly four horsemen:  criticism, contempt, defensiveness, and stonewalling.   I knew from personal experience with couples and from other reading that he was being very insightful and his work would be helpful.   

Fighting for Your Marriage by Howard Markham, Scott Stanley, and Susan L. Blumberg  (Jossey-Bass, San Francisco, 1994)   This book has become a classic for its description of four negative patterns that are very harmful in a relationship, patterns that must be avoided if marriages are to be healed. The authors describe the patterns well including case study examples, explanations, and practical advice as to how to change the pattern.  The four specific patterns are escalation, invalidation, withdrawal and avoidance, and negative interpretations.  When these patterns are present in the emotional interaction in a marriage they are very destructive and need to be fixed in order for the marriage to recover. This book can be very helpful in eliminating these four patterns.

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Book recommendations concerning personality differences

Each week of ours sermon series called Kitchen Table Talks on Relationships I have been making recommendations on my blog for further reading on the topic of this week’s sermon.   Here are some annotated recommendations on this week’s topic of personality differences.

Florence Littauer

Christian writer and speaker, Florence Littauer has written a number of helpful books on the subject of personality.  All use the classic understanding of the four temperaments that I presented in the sermon.

Your Personality Tree (1989)   –   The one I have been using

Personality Plus (1992)  –  Her most famous book on the topic

Personality Plus for Couples (2001)

Personality Plus at Work: How to Work Successfully with Anyone  (with Rose Sweet 2001)

Tim LaHaye

Pastor Tim LaHaye also discusses the classic personality types and uses as examples famous characters from the Bible.    For some reason LaHaye does not put the types in the same quadrants as Littauer, but his chart of characteristics is excellent.

Transformed Temperaments (Tyndale House, 1971)   

David Keirsey

For those who are looking for a more complex contemporary formulation of personality types that correlates to the Myers-Briggs system rather than the classical system, I ran across a very interesting secular book that I think would be helpful.   I purchased it for my own further reading and have perused it some already.    It contains a quick and easy test too.   I like the positive names he gives to his 16 categories. 

David Keirsey, Please Understand Me II,  (Prometheus Nemesis 1998)

 

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Americana Journal News Commentary Wisdom

I Cheer for Immigrants

Recently my wife was reading the book Imagine, How Creativity Works by Jonah Lehrer (Houghton Mifflin Harcourt 2012).   One evening she read to me from it some startling statistics concerning the contributions of immigrants to our American economy.

Immigrants contribute profoundly!

“According to the latest figures from the U. S. Patent office, immigrants invent patents at double the rate of non- immigrants, which is why a 1 percent increase in immigrants with college degrees leads to a 15% rise in patent production.  In recent years, immigrant inventors have contributed to more than a quarter of all U. S. global patent applications.   These new citizens also start companies at an accelerated pace, cofounding 52% of Silicon Valley firms since 1995.  We all benefit when those with good ideas are allowed to freely move about (p. 240).” 

Why are so few green cards available?

These facts heightened my passion as an advocate for immigrants.   Yet, even though we know these things, the wait for green cards is years.  Why?  Meanwhile cities like Detroit bulldoze housing for lack of citizens; while cities like Buffalo, Utica, and Syracuse struggle to rebuild their centers slowly with a trickle of immigrants.    We are depriving ourselves by our restrictive immigration policies.  

A Proverb

A Biblical Proverb reads, “A king’s glory lies in having many subjects; if the prince’s people are few, it is his ruin” (Proverbs 14:28 CJB).   The lesson is common sense.  A nation of ghost towns (or gray-haired towns) like many Northeast cities and small towns are slowly becoming cannot be strong and prosperous.   I call on Senators Schumer and Gillibrand of New York to introduce legislation to greatly increase, maybe even double the green card quotas of our country over the next few years.   Such an action would immediately bolster our declining Northeastern population.    Besides, only when legal immigration is more easily accessible will illegal immigration cease to be an issue.

 

 

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Why pastors should blog

 

Blogging helps pastors communicate

http://www.heathmullikin.com/4-reasons-every-pastor-should-blog/

I recently read the above blog article by Heath Mullikin about why pastors should be bloggers.  I totally agree with him.  I like his reasons but I think I would have listed different ones.  Here are my four.   

1.      A blog makes studies, devotionals, book reviews, etc. available and accessible to people in the congregation who did not attend that particular study, to those connected more remotely with the congregation through a web of relationships either personal or electronic who may become interested in the studies, and to believers around the world, many of whom do not enjoy the resources that you do. 

 

2.      A blog helps the pastor to be real.  As I occasionally share events from my own life–vacation accounts, hobbies, things that interest me–the people in the congregation see that I am not a one-dimensional “talking head.”   I’m always amazed when people see me in gardening clothes, or dressed for fishing; they do not recognize me because they are so used to thinking of me in my Sunday morning role.  When the congregation sees the pastor as a fellow traveler on the road to heaven, a person with human interests like their own, it is easier for them to make connection when you speak on Sunday morning.

 

3.      A blog is a great place to take a stand on community and political issues.  Often there are issues you feel compelled to speak to when they arise or come up in the news.  Or perhaps there is something you want to talk about but don’t necessarily want to dedicate a whole worship service or message to it.   A blog provides the perfect forum.  It is also a great place to take part in the cyberspace dialogues about issues of our day.    It is a way to be part of what is happening in the world rather than isolated within the four walls of your church and the confines of its cliques.  

4.      Reading a blog is a great way for people who are looking for a church to get to know the pastor before they actually meet him.   By reading what you write, they can learn a lot about how you treat Scripture, how you treat those with whom you disagree, what you tend to focus on,  the passions of your heart, your family life, and your vision for the church.   There is no doubt that people today check out churches on the web before they ever darken the door. They choose churches to visit by perusing their webpages.   The pastor’s blog may be your best online advertisement.  

So now you have at least eight reasons.  Have you started blogging yet?