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Americana Country Touches Journal

Rose Arbor Delights

Climbing roses reward hard work

Rose arbors have a history in our family.  My maternal grandmother had a rose arbor.  Here’s a picture of my Grandfather and Grandmother, Samuel and Jessie Isaman in front of their home rose arbor.  The arbor was still there when I was a child but the roses were no longer thriving as they are in this picture.   

There was also a rose arbor at my wife’s maternal grandparent’s house, Clifford and Mildred Wilcox. I often visited there to date their lovely granddaughter, JoAnne. And each time, I entered through the rose arbor gate.

JoAnne always wanted a rose arbor at our home and I did too. But in our first two parishes, there just wasn’t a good place for one. But when we moved to Copper Hill/West Granby parsonage, there was an old broken down gate to a fenced-in area. (It had been a dog run.) The gate and fence were overgrown with poison ivy. But the gate was clearly visible from the dining room window. I saw my chance. I sprayed the ivy and dug out the remaining roots (I’m still digging.) I tore out the old gate and saved the hinges. I turned the fenced area into a garden spot and rebuilt the fence. (We ate strawberries from the garden this week.) Even before I started replacing the gate, I planted the first climbing roses. Then I started building parts for the arbor in the garage. Eventually, I finished the construction. It took at least a year as I did not have much time to work on it. By then, I had roses to tie on it already. The following year I painted it white. After all, both my Grandmother’s arbor and JoAnne’s grandparent’s arbor were white.

To maintain our rose arbor, I fertilize each bush each year and remove the weeds. In the spring I remove the dead material. As the bushes age, there is more of that. I tie the climbing canes to the arbor so they don’t tip over. In the most recent picture, there are a couple canes that have come lose and need to be retied. If the weather is unusually dry, I water them. At first, the red rose (Blaze) dominated as in the featured picture from 2020. But now the pink one is taking over (lower picture set from 2022). The first couple years, I mulched the base of each bush for winter. But that seems unnecessary now.

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Journal Wisdom

A good article about helping children grow into leaders

 

Many years ago JoAnne and I had the privilege of meeting Dr. Tim Elmore who is being interviewed for this article.   He makes excellent points about how many parents are trying to protect their children or do what is easy for themselves but in the process are not doing what is strongest for their children’s growth in leadership.   It is so important for parents to take the long term perspective.

http://www.forbes.com/sites/kathycaprino/2014/01/16/7-crippling-parenting-behaviors-that-keep-children-from-growing-into-leaders/

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Journal Joy Notes Who Am I

Time for a Grandpa post

I finally had a little time to empty the cameras and go through the pictures with my laptop.   So I could not resist making a gallery of Sammy pictures to share.   JoAnne and I had the privilege of spending a few days with Mark and Keely and Sam on vacation a week ago in their newly purchased house.   Since it is an older house with some additions over the years, so it has lots of room, and lots of character, but also a few bugs–things that need to be done.   So I have been helping with repairs and repainting while JoAnne watches Sam so Keely can decorate and unpack.   JoAnne has such a tough job, she can hardly stand it — snicker, snicker.     The rest of us are doing minor remodeling while she goes for a walk with Sam and lounges with him in the bedroom so he is not in the way of the painting project.   Of course, I’m not jealous…   Anyway, here are some great pictures of my grandson and our family.   

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Journal Joy Notes Who Am I

News! We are to be Grandparents!

JoAnne and I are on the proverbial cloud nine as we have recently learned that our daughter, Keely, and her husband Mark are expecting!  Early next year we are to become grandparents for the first time. What wonderful news!

The only hard part about it was that we were given the preliminary news a couple weeks earlier but were asked not to tell it for a couple weeks. This was really hard as people are always asking us whether there is any news about grandchildren yet.  It’s tough to keep good news in, especially for me.  Well now we can say, “Yes there is news!”

So if we seem to be a little distracted or have our head in the clouds, you’ll know the reason.