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Christmas Card Traditions

JoAnne and I still very much enjoy Christmas cards.  We send them and we like to receive them too.    Most of the cards we receive are refreshingly beautiful too.  We’re one of those couples who write the annual Christmas letter, now complete with color pictures, and copy it onto Christmas stationery to include in our cards.   We do this because we know how we are disappointed when we open a card from an old friend only to find nothing inside but a signature, perhaps even a pre-printed one. 

Cards feature Christmas pictures

 

   It’s a retro thing, I guess.   Christmas cards just seem a little more personal than the e-touch.  They also fit with the season; email happens all the time.  We’ve experimented with moving our letter to email and saving all that money on stamps.   That works, I suppose, but it just doesn’t have the same feel.   I came from a home where we hung the Christmas cards around the wide hallway entrance to the old parlor.  There were always enough of them to go all the way up one side across the top and down the other side.  As I think back on it, it was like our family Christmas was surrounded by extended family.  It was shared in some small way by a life-time collection of friends and loved ones.   So JoAnne and I have returned to more cards and less email. 

We also have kept track of many friends over the years through our Christmas cards.  Many friends we have only written once each year, but that communication opened the way for a visit, or a longer letter, or a phone call or email conversation at a later time.   Some very good friends we were sad to lose track of because they moved or did not return our cards.   Sometimes, by perseverance we would find a good address again through a mutual friend. 

We always try to pick cards that focus the true meaning of Christmas and include verses of Scripture.  It is one more way to help us remember the first Christmas and our reason to celebrate; and to share that focal point with our friends and family too.

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More Thanksgiving Ideas

Thanksgiving Blessings

At our extended family Thanksgiving dinner for the Jones clan yesterday, I received a couple really neat ideas for young families.

1. My niece, Pat, and her family who hosted this year and did a great job, have a tradition called the Thanksgiving box. Each year, each member of the family writes down the thing or things they are most thankful for on a piece of paper with their name and the year. Then they put it in a special box labeled “The Thanksgiving Box” and save it. Then in following years, if the family wishes, they can look at what each person gave thanks for.   It provides a kind of family history of Thanksgiving.

2. My nephew, Doug, and his family have a different variation on the same idea. They have a designated Thanksgiving tablecloth that is only used on Thanksgiving. Each year they get out markers and each family member writes on the tablecloth what they are thankful for.   Then they have Thanksgiving dinner using that tablecloth.   This idea sounds like a real children’s delight to me.  

I thought these were wonderful ideas to help children participate in the true meaning of the Thanksgiving holiday and build family togetherness at the same time. .