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Yes, We Need to Change

 

http://www.christianpost.com/news/we-must-change-obama-says-about-school-shooting-86754/

I think President Obama is right.  Our society as a whole must change if carnage like we have experienced four times in his four year presidency is to be stopped.   The key question is:  How must our country change?  As a pastor, writing from my perspective, I suggest the following three practical ways to change as a transforming start.

Believe in Hell

1.  We must get back to the genuine fear of God that acknowledges that we are responsible to God after we die for what we do while we are alive.   The Bible is clear that there is a hell and Jesus said plainly that those who do evil will be condemned (John 5:29).  Sad to say, the suffering of murderers like Adam Lanza has only begun.  The Apostle John wrote simply, “You know that no murderer has eternal life in him” (1 Jn 3:15 NIV)   Think about the ethical company of a murderer in the Bible and what happens to them after death.  For example, “We also know that law is made not for the righteous but for lawbreakers and rebels, the ungodly and sinful, the unholy and irreligious; for those who kill their fathers or mothers, for murderers, for adulterers and perverts, for slave traders and liars and perjurers — and for whatever else is contrary to the sound doctrine  that conforms to the glorious gospel of the blessed God, which he entrusted to me” (1 Ti 1:9-11 NIV)  In the Bible’s final book, murderers are included with others in such company  in the list of those condemned.   “The cowardly, the unbelieving, the vile, the murderers, the sexually immoral, those who practice magic arts, the idolaters and all liars — their place will be in the fiery lake of burning sulfur. This is the second death” (Rev. 21:8 NIV).   The longer we indulge in practical atheism with a corresponding lack of after-life responsibility, the more people will believe the devil’s lie that they can commit suicide after murder and escape consequences.   It is not so.

Corollary A.  This also means preachers like me need to say more about hell.   One of the reasons people don’t believe in it much is that preachers don’t talk about it much.   In my grandparent’s time and before, preaching `hell-fire and brimstone’ was popular.  The pendulum has swung too far the other way and now it is seldom mentioned.   That needs some correction.    Jesus taught, “Do not be afraid of those who kill the body but cannot kill the soul. Rather, be afraid of the One who can destroy both soul and body in hell” (Mt 10:28 NIV).

 

Fewer Divorces

2.   We must acknowledge and act upon the truth that divorce makes children, including older adolescents like Adam Lanza more vulnerable to maladjustment.   As Christians, we acknowledge that sometimes divorce is going to happen, but it is happening way too much and without recognition of the consequences to children.  We have deceived ourselves as a society into thinking that we can divorce without consequences to our children’s development.  This assumption is not Biblical.   In Malachi, God says about the heterosexual couple, “Has not [the Lord] made them one? In flesh and spirit they are his. And why one? Because he was seeking godly offspring. So guard yourself in your spirit, and do not break faith with the wife of your youth.    “I hate divorce,” says the Lord God of Israel, “and I hate a man’s covering himself with violence as well as with his garment,” says the Lord Almighty”  (Mal 2:15-16).   Why does God picture divorce as opposed to the goal of godly progeny?   Because it is the truth as any single Mom can attest and many sociological studies have confirmed that children have a much harder time doing well in life when the parents are not both present and on the job together.    We will not successfully address the problem of off-the-wall violent young adults until we address the broken homes that contribute to their pain.  We need to acknowledge that our selfishness in having it our way and refusing to seek counsel for reconciliation or refusing to bend, our hardness of heart as Jesus put it, is part of the problem.   

 

Bloodshed in Media is Not Entertaining

3.  As a society, we must stop enjoying violence in entertainment.  A society that makes heroes on film and in video games of people who spatter blood everywhere will sooner or later be afflicted by real violence of the kind we have seen.  Since God hates bloodshed, it cannot be our better side that calls bloodshed in media entertainment.    Morally undeveloped individuals tend to follow unreal fantasy heroes, including violent ones from film and video.   The more plentiful and highly acclaimed this kind of ‘hero’ is, the more likely to attract a low moral intelligence look-alike for real.  We can all honor the victims of Sandy Hook by returning all violent video games and not attending any movies with predominant shoot-em-up, blood-letting themes.   If we did that, soon we would have better fare at the box office and among the gaming apps.   When ancient Israel became a violent nation, God said to them, “Since you did not hate bloodshed, bloodshed will pursue you” (Eze 35:6).   If we truly hate what we saw in Connecticut and Virginia Tech, etc., then we have a clear consumer choice to make.     

 

Just these 3 changes would make a difference

Certainly these are not the only issues that need to be discussed after what has happened.  How we handle mental health issues in the family, access of the mentally unstable to guns in their family circle,  security at schools, jobs and job training for marginally employable young men, these also need further discussion.  But they are not my focus.  I believe that the three changes I have suggested would make a huge difference.  The change will not come overnight.  But these three modifications in our beliefs and behaviors would transform our culture in ways that would drastically reduce the incidence of horrendous violence. 

 

 

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Journal Joy Notes Who Am I

A Thanksgiving Tribute to My Mom

November 20th, my Mom, Dorothy I. Jones, went to be with her Savior.  She had turned 90 in August.  Though she had been declining for months as a consequence of slow congestive heart failure, the end happened quite suddenly and unexpectedly.  I’ve been working on this Thanksgiving tribute to Mom for a couple days.  Also, here’s a link to her obituary.

 Obituary for Dorothy I. Jones

 

I’m thankful for our phone conversations

When I think of my Mom, one of the first blessings that comes to mind is our phone conversations.  The chain of them began when I was a freshman at the University of Rochester.  Late at night I would sit at the hallway telephone and talk to Mom.  Our conversations have never been short and that habit goes back to that year too.   Recent years I would get on my cell phone while sitting in my big chair and converse.  It was not unusual to be an hour on the phone.   We covered a lot of subjects; family news, farm news, church news and upcoming schedules.  But Mom also talked about Bible verses she was studying or teaching from, articles or books she had read, things from gardening in the summer and feeding birds in the winter, and even news items of note—she loved Paul Harvey especially.   I will miss those conversations.

I’m thankful for her prayers

Another great blessing from my Mom was her prayer life.  

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Church Leadership Forward Look Journal

State of the Church address

At the semi-annual church conference, I changed the format of my usual report and instead presented a “State of the Church” address.   It was meant to summarize the achievements of my pastorate and describe the position of our church today as I view it.   I am attaching it in pdf format.

The State of the Church

Having reflected on it now for a couple weeks since I wrote it, there is one section that I should have added to the innovations section.  But we take it so much for granted today and know that there is no going back so I did not think of it.   The item I should have noted concerns all the technological advances we have made in using the computer since I have been pastor.   I arrived at the end of the typewriter era in Kirkville.  During my tenure, all record-keeping has been computerized; we used the computer to keep records and generate mailing lists.  Our current database expert volunteer is Josh Basile.  Of course, all correspondence and bulletin preparation has been computerized.  Currently we are using Word and Publisher 2010 to accomplish our work.   After Mahlon Moon’s thoughtful memorial gift of the the projector and screen in memory of Tillie, we entered the era of projected song words, PowerPoint slides when needed, mission slide shows without carousel trays, downloaded video clips, movies on the big screen, and most recently now, joining in a national simulcast.   All this has required consistent upgrading through the years as technology advanced and equipment wore out.  Finally, with a great deal of help from Steven Sgroi, we have become a church with a viable web presence.   We now have our own domain name  –  kirkvillewesleyan.org, on which we maintain our church website, publish three or four blogs and  have the capability for a sermon database in printed or video form.  In addition, again with Steven’s help, we are now on Facebook.   Our web presence is of increasing importance today as people check out churches online before visiting and expect some technical savvy when they arrive too. Ben Mackey oversees the team that makes possible our projection and sound ministry on Sundays.   Also, thanks to Ed Maum, we enjoy an in-house network.   Thank you to all the other volunteers too who make all this happen.

Finally, I would recommend an important parallel anecdotal account of the current state of our church.  If you read my wife’s book, God With Us; Fifty True Stories of God’s Faithfulness, you will see that it reflects who we are as a congregation very well.  So many of the stories describe the ministries of our church co-incidentally as she relays the first person testimonies.   Overall, a very powerful picture of our community of faith emerges.

 

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Journal Joy Notes

More fall pictures

I emptied another camera and added more pictures to gallery of fall pictures from our camera carrying walk at Green Lakes a few weeks ago.

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Americana Journal Who Am I

The Syracuse Train Show

A couple weeks ago on the first Saturday in November I snuck out to the annual Syracuse Train Show.  It is a massive display of working train sets of all gauges and vendors of all railroad hobby items from whistles and T-shirts to new engines and cars to antique parts and postcards.   The last two years it has been in the Toyota building at the State Fair grounds.   It is the third largest train show in the Northeast. 

I love to go for several reasons.  One, I guess it is the little boy in me.  My brothers and I shared an O‑gauge Lionel train set when we were children.   It had one oval of track on a 4 by 8 sheet of plywood with a road painted across it in black crayon.   We had a great deal of fun with it.  About ten years ago Bill Quick gifted me a set very much like it, which reignited my interest in the hobby.  Ever since then at our house, we have had trains around the Christmas tree.  

Special features of the show that I especially look for are two.   One is the Lego train display.  It is amazing to see their huge colorful set-up with its speedy trains made of Lego.   The other display is that of our local historical group chapter.  You can see more pictures on their website. http://www.hirailers.org/modular_layouts.htm. The detail model that they are building from pictures of the old station on Erie Blvd. with the elevated tracks behind it is awesome.   Their display had multiple sections.   Another section included a repainted two story station that I loved.  I have one like it but have not painted it yet. 

This year I went to the train show with a new perspective.  I’m starting to think about sharing the train hobby with my little grandson.   I’ve already bought him some Thomas the Train books and this year at the fair, I went looking for a good deal on what I learned was the second most popular train set ever sold,  Thomas the Train.  (Number one is the Polar Express.)  Thomas has just recently been reproduced with a new remote control feature that will eventually allow operators to run more than one train on the same track.   This is especially nice since most Thomas stories feature more than one engine.   The story has a happy ending too as I found one at a good discount and bought the vendor’s last one.

 

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Visit to our daughter and family

 

JoAnne and I took a couple days off to go to Connecticut this past week.   It’s a combination of things.   For one, we acknowledge that we are pretty taken with our new grandson.   He is so loving.   He cuddles right up to his Grandpa and Grandma J.    Attached are some photos by doting grandparents for Sammy’s nine month mark.

 

We also go to help Keely and Mark as we can with the practical things of being homeowners.   I am the family handyman, I guess.   And I am blessed that my son-in-law asks me to mentor him in learning to take care of his home as he is a first time homeowner.   This trip we worked with the extension ladder he bought, learning to set up and lower it properly.   Hurricane Sandy did no damage to their house, thankfully, but it did reveal a couple serious east wind leaks that needed quick attention.   So Mark and I spent Saturday morning on the sunroom roof fixing those.    I trust we were successful.   

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Americana Journal

Railroad golden era reminders

It is interesting to me how you find reminders of the Golden Age of Railroad transportation in the oddest places.  Perhaps they only seem odd to me because 100 years ago railroad tracks meandered into many corners of our nation that are far from any railroad today.  

A couple weeks ago, my wife and I attended the CNY-NE district pastors’ retreat at Camp of the Woods near Speculator in the Adirondacks.   To my surprise and joy, sitting in a lawn was an old Erie Railroad caboose #04947.  On the other side it was labeled Napierville Junction 38.  The Napierville Junction Railroad went from Rouse’s Pt. NY to Montreal.    This caboose was from the area when cabooses were made of wood and had rounded dome roofs. Beside it was a station freight cart.   I looked the caboose up on a hobby website by its Erie number.  This one was built in 1929 by Magor Car Company of New Jersey.  

Why was it there?  From their website, Camp of the Woods offers lodging at a cabin built onto another newer caboose—part of a strategy of offering some unique accommodations.  I found a picture on their website. I missed seeing that one but will look for it if I have a chance to visit there again.    I suppose the idea of staying in a caboose may have originated back in the days when tourists came to the Adirondacks by railroad rather than by motorcar since Camp of the Woods traces its history back to 1900.    Was the now unused caboose on the front lawn an earlier accommodation?   Maybe a reader knows.

 

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Church Leadership Journal

Sermon coordinated Bible reading for November 4-24

 

Daily Bible reading is a basic discipline of disciples

 Our Big Bible Bonanza reading contest has been very successful in encouraging daily Bible reading.  Though people could choose to read any passage of at least five verses that they wanted to, many chose to follow the sermon coordinated outline series that we prepared for the contest time.   At least one person wondered aloud what he would do when that schedule came to an end.  

I have good news.  I am supplying a sermon coordinated list for the next sermon series as well.   The up-coming series is on Gratitude and Giving.  I also hope to supply a reading schedule for the Christmas series.    At the turn of the year, we can help people choose from the many yearly plans that are available.   Hopefully we will all have greatly strengthened the discipline of daily Bible reading in the process.

 

 

Bible Reading Suggestions for Sermons series on Gratitude and Giving

 

Sunday

Monday

Tuesday

Wednesday

Thursday

Friday

Saturday

# of days you read

Week of Nov 4-10

Psalm 96:1-10

Romans 7:21-8:2

Psalm 85:7-13

Eph. 1:15-23

Psalm 145:8-13

Mark 12:38-44

Col. 3:13-17

 

Week of Nov 11-17

Psalm 98

Romans 14:5-12

Psalm 50:7-15, 23

Col. 1:9-14

Psalm 56:3,4, 10-13

John 6:1-15

Mark 8:1-10

 

Week of Nov 18-24

Psalm 136:1-9

Luke 17:11-19

Psalm 118:1,2, 13-16

1 Thess. 5:16-24

Psalm 95:1-7

Luke 22:14-20

I Cor. 15:51-58

 

 

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Big Bible Bonanza increases Bible reading

 

Daily Bible reading is a basic discipline of disciples

 

Blue Angels vs. Goldfish

Everyone a winner – that was our goal at the beginning of the Bible reading emphasis.  More specifically, the goal was to increase the number of people reading their Bible every day.  Well, what has happened?  How are we doing?   Our organizers divided the congregation into two alphabetical teams as evenly as they could, based upon the list of those that attend.   Team names chosen were the Blue Angels for the first half of the alphabet and the Goldfish (think of the ancient Christian symbol) for the second half.   The goal was not how much you read, but to read at least 5 verses every day.  People, including children reported their reading through their classes and small groups.  Adults could read to younger children.  (Those who were not attending a small group could report directly to the organizers.)  

Discipline is not easy but accountability helps

Surprisingly, there was a little mumbling among even some seasoned Christians at being asked to participate in something that required one to be accountable for the discipline of Scripture reading. But, as the contest progressed, conviction and the encouragement of friends prevailed.   This illustrated that though we sometimes resist being accountable to one another, it is almost always beneficial to us in the long run.   Discipline is not easy.  I have to confess that during the five weeks, I missed one day myself while traveling.  But I was glad for the added accountability provided by the contest.

Classes and groups influential

The idea of reporting to small groups turned out to be very influential, especially among the adults.  Participation in several adult classes grew as the contest continued.   Last week three adult classes, those led by Larry Nemitz, George Raterman and Claude Walrath, all reported 100% of their members reading every day.   Congratulations to these teachers and their classes.

Families blessed

Hearing of increases in Bible reading across the board is a great win for everyone.   Contest records show that 31 people never missed a day in the first four weeks. (Those who have a perfect record for all five weeks will be recognized at the dinner.)   They set the pace for all of us.  Another inspiration is learning of personal stories like that of a family of four, who read every day from the sermon coordinated suggestions—the father read to his family.   When the father had to spend a few days in the hospital, his young son volunteered to take his place.  (At their suggestion, I’ll be making a list of coordinated reading for the next three weeks too, even though the contest will be ended.)  Another family called in their points while traveling.  (Families were allowed to call in points one Sunday out of the five.)   I’d love to hear more stories of how you have been blessed by the Bible reading contest.

A great example of encouraging one another

The first two weeks of the contest, only one team, the Blue Angels, received the bonus for having more that 60% of those participating reading every day.  The second week, neither team received it.   But by the fourth week, both teams exceeded 70% of readers reading every day.   The highest percentage so far was 76% reading daily achieved by the Goldfish on week three.  At this writing, the Goldfish are looking strong.   Of the people on their team, on the average, they had a larger number who read their Bibles and reported than the Blue Angels did, which added up.   But certainly we all win by confirming the habit of Bible reading.  So we will all celebrate with a dinner on Nov. 10.   A big thank you to key contest organizer JoAnne Jones, John Risley—who helped with stats— team captains Mark Boswell and Rhett Laforte, and Sunday School teachers and group leaders who helped encourage their class.   This was a great example of putting into practice Hebrews 10:23-25.   “Let us hold unswervingly to the hope we profess, for he who promised is faithful.  And let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love and good deeds. Let us not give up meeting together, as some are in the habit of doing, but let us encourage one another — and all the more as you see the Day approaching” (NIV 1984).

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Great golf fun today

I haven’t played golf in a couple years.  But I was invited to go out today to Casolwood in Canastota with  Mark Boswell, Shaun Harrington and Peter Moon.  It was great friendship and many laughs from the start.   We played eighteen holes of captain and crew and came in at three under par.   It was overcast but dry and warm with temperatures in the low sixties, a great fall day.   The course was in good shape for late fall.  I took advantage of my age and played from the Sr. tees.  Pete hit some monster drives.  Mark used his experience to make the calls as to which shot to play.  Shaun saved his best shots for the last holes, saving us from golf disaster several times.   I stayed with my three-wood most of the afternoon since I have played so little.   But on the 17th hole, Pete tempted me into finally getting out the driver.   He had hit a great drive and I knew that in order to better it, I had to move up from the three-wood to the driver.  So I did and successfully outdrove him, surprising none more than myself.   I ended on eighteen with another picturesque driver shot – one of my best ever.   Whenever I play golf, I always remember the advice of my friend Bryce Tuttle, former owner of Skyridge Golf Course.   He used to say, “Golf is a believer’s game.”    Pete, however, said that he has to dream it.  Then he can make the shot.   Well, sometimes he did and sometimes… but that’s golf.   The outdoor air, the few good shots you make and the great company keep you coming back.