Categories
Journal Joy Notes Who Am I Wisdom

How to make a long winter shorter

An early morning shot from an upstairs window
An early morning shot from an upstairs window

Like many northerners, I enjoy seeing a little snow around Christmas but soon afterward begin to wish it were springtime.  But, alas, there are still three months until spring if it arrives on time.  Then if we have a cold snowy February like this year, it seems like winter goes on forever.  So how does one make the time fly by?   I was thinking about that today.   My wife and I must be doing a particularly good job this year as I have hardly had time to wish for spring yet.    Here are my recommendations for making a long winter shorter. 

First, be sure to make a big deal of Christmas and by all means, don’t tear all the decorations down on Dec. 26th.   For ourselves, we never take any decorations down before Epiphany (Jan. 6) which is the traditional end of the Christmas season in the Christian Church.   Then, since I invite children from church over to see my trains around the tree and there are usually some children who haven’t come by Jan. 6, I leave the trains up longer until all have had a chance to see them.   So what if it is sometimes February by the time I get it all put away. 

Second, I suggest having some winter-only hobbies.  We have two.  One is feeding the birds.  Here in rural CT, bears will tear your feeder apart, I’m told, if you feed birds while they are awake anyway, so bird feeding makes a great winter hobby.   It’s also a very cheerful thing watching chickadees, juncos, cardinals, nuthatches, woodpeckers, etc. outside your window.    Occasionally a hawk may visit seeking a fat junco for a meal.  This year I have a cute and perky Carolina wren visiting regularly.

Another activity that JoAnne and I save for winter weeks is putting together jigsaw puzzles.   We both enjoy the challenge.  After we complete one, we carefully bag up the puzzle and put it back in the box for storage.  We’ll get it out and put it together again in a year or two.  Some become favorites and go together faster every year.   Essentials for this hobby are a spare dedicated table spot that doesn’t need to be disturbed often, a small collection of puzzles you like in sizes you like, and a handy puzzle lamp.   We like 500, 750 and 1000 piece sizes the best.  

 

In addition to our work at church and our interaction with our daughter and her family, these 3 winter pastimes keep the cold days passing quickly.   Before we know it, it will be spring.   And I haven’t even resorted to pulling out the seed catalogs to make garden plans yet—well, maybe a few times.        

Categories
Journal News Commentary Wisdom

Moral issues in GM advertising

 

I am very disturbed by the alarming trend in the moral tone of some GM advertising.  I do not usually watch much television, but I do enjoy the winter Olympics and GM has been advertising heavily on NBC during the Sochi games.   I am saddened and disappointed at the low moral level reflected in some of the ads.   In addition, as a person who has driven more GM cars by far than any other brand, and currently drives a Chevy Equinox, I even feel a little betrayed. 

Let’s begin with the lowest one.  You know the one I mean.  “I can’t believe you got a tattoo on your…”   The viewer is left to imagine some kind of outrageous drunken night before which the male driver may not even fully remember and which his wife or girlfriend riding with him seems to take in stride as semi-normal.   Is this coarse humor the best they could do to advertise connectivity?  This follows the disturbing habit of much media to proffer that which gets noticed without taking any responsibility for its ethical content or probable influence.   I prefer following St. Paul’s advice, “Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen” (Ephesians 4:29 NIV).

Then there is the ad by Cadillac that would turn off any morally mature person.  It is the epitome of hated American arrogance that gives us a bad reputation around the world.   The man talks about how we left the keys in a car on the moon because we’re the only ones going back.   We left because we got bored.  The further implication is that we can drive Cadillac because we only take two weeks off in August rather than four like the Europeans.   What snobbish nonsense! The writers of that ad were obviously not schooled in history or Christian ethics either.   “Pride goes before destruction, a haughty spirit before a fall” (Proverbs 16:18) and “God opposes the proud but gives grace to the humble” (James 4:6) have not been part of their reading.

Finally, take the case of the young babysitter who, after noticing the Tahoe’s fine and expensive leather interior raises her price $20 on the spot.   Raising the price based on presumed ability to pay is the stuff of tourist trap street vendors, not normal business dealings.   It is hardly an example of honesty or wise interpersonal relationships.  It is also a counter-productive ad because the person driving the Tahoe will feel cheated.   (Also note that the baby sitter will be unlikely to be rehired.)   So the implicit ad message is, if you buy a Tahoe you get to be taken advantage of.   People would much rather be respected by honest dealing than by looking rich enough to be taken advantage of!

These ads do not reflect good moral thinking at GM.  I pray for better from a blue chip American company.   

 

Categories
Journal News Commentary Wisdom

College should build character

Houghton Logo I have been reflecting today on two completely independent items that I read.  The first was an article about the problem of officers being ejected from the Army in alarming numbers for character issues of various kinds. Here is the quote. 

“The number of U.S. soldiers forced out of the Army because of crimes or misconduct has soared in the past several years as the military emerges from a decade of war that put a greater focus on battle competence than on character.  Data obtained by The Associated Press shows that the number of officers who left the Army due to misconduct more than tripled in the past three years.”   http://news.yahoo.com/ap-exclusive-misconduct-forces-more-soldiers-145434065.html

Having been in the military myself for a few years, I am aware that young officers are college graduates.  I reflected that this is not the only place where college educated people seem to be showing disappointing levels of moral character.   The halls of Congress and the governors’ offices of several eastern states in recent years have provided too many high profile examples of moral failures.  One would hope that higher levels of education would lead to higher maturity of character too. 

The other item that I read was in a letter from Dr. Shirley Mullen of Houghton College.   It alluded to one of the fundamental causes of this observed counterintuitive and disturbing decline in character.

“Earlier this month, New York Times Columnist David Brooks addressed more than 300 presidents of America’s private universities and colleges at the Presidents’ Institute of the Council of Independent Colleges.   At a time when much of the dialogue about higher education in America is about cost, graduation rates, job training, and student loans, Brooks pleaded with the presidents not to forget what society needs most from college graduates: character and wisdom. He then proceeded to assert that the only sector of American higher education that has an explicit strategy for the development of character and wisdom is the Christian college. It is not often that Christian colleges are called out for praise within the larger world of American higher education!”  

It does not take a genius to see the relationship between these two quotes. Christian colleges represent only a very small slice of American higher education. That means most of American college graduates spend their college years in institutions where character and wisdom are not part of the agenda.  When these are not part of the agenda, students often use their formative years as something of an unholy “moral holiday,” a time when they throw off restraint.   With no one even attempting to guide this time of experimentation, the results are frequently predictably disastrous.

As a longtime advocate of Christian colleges in general and of Houghton College in particular, I have said for years that parents need to invest their college dollars in colleges were character matters and where good character is formed, not destroyed; colleges like Houghton.   For this reason, when our daughter was choosing a college my wife and I said to her, “We are going to be investing a lot of money in this; you pick the college, but it has to be a Christian college.”   We knew she liked new places, so it was a surprise when she picked her mother’s alma mater, Houghton College.  Houghton did not disappoint!